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The Great Chill Massacre of was not premeditated. I killed what little Chill I actually had and I shed no tears for it. To the uninitiated, having Wanting sex tjisawang and being cool are synonyms. They describe a person with a laid-back attitude, an absence of neurosis, and reasonably interesting tastes and passions.

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But the person with Chill is crucially missing these last ingredients because they are too far removed from anything that looks like intensity to have passions. They have discernible tastes and beliefs but they are unlikely to materialize as passionate. Passion is polarizing; being enthusiastic or worked up is downright obsessive. She likes him far too much and lets it virginia beach women seeking casual sex. Chill is different — it is agreeable because it is emotionally vacant. Chill is what Cool would look like with a lobotomy and no hobbies.

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And for a large subset of the population, Chill is one of the most desirable qualities in a romantic prospect. I am originally from San Diego where Chill was as much a part of our culture as burritos and surfing and lifted Toyota Tacoma trucks. It ladies want nsa tn nashville 37208 an insistence on going with the flow, rolling with the punches. Most of these descriptions describe the act of chilling, which is either hanging out or smoking weed, and sometimes both.

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The others describe being chill, an adjective to describe being calm, laid back, or relaxed. These definitions are deceptively simple ways of asking people to have fewer strong emotions. Early adopters of the sexual liberation and drug culture in the s had a prototype for Chill in their sexual mores and free spirits. But this kind of Chill still had japan women over 40 seeking sex emotional dimension. An open relationship is, after all, still a relationship.

To even acknowledge that there might be an emotional dimension to talking or dating or hanging out or coming over or fucking or whatever the kids are calling it all these days feels forbidden.

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It is a game of chicken where adult wants nsa fredonia kansas first person to confess their frustration or confusion loses. But Chill is not the opposite of uptight. It is the opposite of demanding ability. Chill suggests that young love is best expressed as competitive ambivalence.

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Chill takes and never gives. Chill is pathologically unfeeling but not even interesting enough to kill anyone. Chill is a garbage virtue that will destroy the species.

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Anyone with real Chill would never do something so erratic and shrill as capitalize the first letter of the word. Because that is making it a thing.

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And people with Chill do not make anything a thing. I routinely happen upon men who are perplexed when I eventually declare that I want to know where we stand. Indecision is not a noble virtue. My feelings, and the feelings of many people I know, are more hurt by the prolonged waiting for a concrete answer while we sit quietly with our feigned Chill. My aim is not to force everyone beautiful housewives wants real sex bloomsburg return in lock-step to monogamous relationships that begin after exactly 8.

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But it ought to be acknowledged that the two of us are not, in fact, just chilling when we get together. So, ladies and gentleman and people who do not believe in the binary, we have reached peak Chill. Or at least I hope we have. Because Chill is the opposite of something else too: warmth.

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And kindness, and earnestness, and vulnerability. And we need just enough of those things to occasionally do swingers fareham free so remarkably unchill as fall in love. Medium is an open platform where million readers come to find insightful and dynamic thinking. Here, expert and undiscovered voices alike dive into the heart of any topic and bring new ideas to the surface.

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